When we talk about the life of newly-wed couples, there are many things to enjoy and cherish but there are some parts of it which get on our nerves. Guys can be annoying by being lazy in keeping the toilet lid shut, putting a wet towel on that new sofa and much more. Well that is pretty common but what if we talk about things which annoy guys? Well we have compiled around 12 things women do that get on men’s nerves. Ready? Let’s get right into the points.
12… How do I look
Well it might be wonderful to watch her dress up in charming colors and it makes you wonder how beautiful can someone get but it’s all good until you’re asked about it. When she asks you how she looks in that dress, you get stuck in a loop hole of confusion about expressing it the right way and it’s funny how women get mad every time on our remarks; get too honest or too careful, she gets mad anyway.
11… Gossip
There are types of comfort levels in men and one of the things which disturb it is an episode of unnecessary discussion about the life of people who they aren’t interested in. So a guy gets annoyed when she talks constantly about her best friend’s personal life which doesn’t even make sense.
10 The Struggle
When a guy considers his significant other an important part of his life, then he considers her opinions and choices to be something to pay heed on. Most of the times when a guy plans to make her day by taking her out for dinner or shopping, but it gets extremely annoying when he intends to give priority to her choice of place to visit and she doesn’t have any suggestion.
It gets annoying as she doesn’t even try to make an effort to decide and is definitely a turn off for guys.
9. I’M Fine
It’s a fact that the people who consider you close to them can read your emotions; it happens most of the time, not all the times. So when he sees that her face is clouded with worry, then it affects him to an extent that he wants to get her out of the worries and see her happy again. Normally when this happens, women tend to push their guys away by telling them it’s nothing and it gets very annoying for them most of the times.
8. Comparing
Imagine there’s a fight between a couple and its getting heated steadily, both of them are arguing until the worst part of ego kicks in and the girl starts comparing him with her ex or guy best friends. Its highly unbecoming for guys to face this kind of insult and they clearly see that women say it deliberately just to win the fight.
7.Suspicion
It’s such a turn off for a guy when he comes home after a long episode of work, exhausted and wanting comfort but getting a little late gets him stuck in another problem. Suspicion is a real issue and forces the relationship between spouses to become bland because either of them thinks they can’t trust the other person as they used to but it gets really annoying when the man is forced justify every single action just to prove his innocence.
6.Sharing Personal Life with Others
Respecting the privacy is one of the expectations of every guy and he expects it the most of the ones close to them. When their spouse shares every single thing about their alone time with her best friends just to let them know how about it casually, then it makes the man very uncomfortable as he doesn’t want a third person to get involved in their personal life.
5. The Loop
Women being caring keeps reminding their spouse about saving money just to plan for a better future of their children and themselves; since everything is nurturing at the start of their marriage, both of them try to save as much as they can for vacations and other liabilities. But sometimes, women tend to step ahead to save too much or complain about him not giving much time when he gets serious enough to focus on his career. That’s when it gets too hard for the guy to figure out what to do and it’s highly unflattering.
4.Judging
It’s very for a guy to face judgments about the people who are close to him besides his life partner. Well, these people include his parents, siblings and friends. Since women are more blunt about their feelings as compared to men, they say whatever they feel about a particular situation to their spouse. It gets annoying and frustrating when the guy has to listen to unnecessary judgments about his close friends from her regarding what they do or their own choices in life.
3.Little Celebrations
Its sweet and indicates interest in a guy’s life when he realizes that his partner is taking interest in celebrating occasions like birthdays or anniversaries but it gets on his nerves when he sees every happy moment turning into something to celebrate for the next decade; First car anniversary, first home celebration, first poop of our dog celebration…Ugh!
2.Give me time
It is highly appreciable for a guy to focus on his future even when he has settled down after marriage; it indicates his mindset of upgrading everything around him for a better future of his family. Sometimes, he gets so busy that his wife doesn’t really understand the importance of his progress and that’s when the nagging kicks in. The need of constant attention usually gets on a guy’s nerves when he’s about to finish his projects and de-motivates him off his goals most of the times
1. Reminding Past Mistakes
There are times when guys make mistakes by saying bitter things to their spouse during an argument; even though they regret and apologies after a while, women choose to keep the words saved in their minds and remind them when things could be cooled down in future fights.
This thing grieves a guy so much that he starts questioning his own worth in the bond between his wife and him. To avoid such situations, women should try to forgive and forget wholly because men, when apologetic, have hopes of another chance.
